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As
a church leader, you must develop other leaders. That's a simple church growth
fact. If you don't, your church will hit a growth lid. No matter how hard you
work, no matter how much you love God, no matter how great a communicator you
are, your church will reach its natural limit. The ability to develop other
leaders is the lid lifter that allows your church to reach its God given
potential - a spirit-filled potential far beyond the limits of natural gifts
and talents.
Selecting
the right people to develop is at the very epicenter of fruitful leadership
development. We all know what it's like to invest in the wrong person and feel
the disappointment of lost time, effort, and energy. This causes us to become
reserved and overcautious in attempting to seek out other potential leaders.
In
some ways, the selection process feels subjective and swayed by emotion. In
other ways, the selection process seems limited according to the people who are
currently part of your flock. Yet when you let God in on the process, human
limitations are stretched to fulfill what God has in mind.
Jesus
chose twelve apprentices, and most of them did not seem to be such promising
prospects. You may argue, "Well, Jesus was divine, and He knew what He was
doing." Yes, He had a substantial advantage, but focus on the primary
insight: not that Jesus was God, not that He chose from a natural crowd, not
for perfection, but rather potential.
I
must confess I don't think I would have selected half of the crew Jesus did.
What an unlikely bunch! He was purposeful in His selection, but His choices
were not only about the mission, but also about their personal development.
Jesus invested just as much time, if not more, teaching them and preparing them
to minister as He did in ministry Himself.
The
lesson I pull from Jesus' life is that we must become discerners of potential.
All too often, church leaders' instinctive action is to spot reasons to take
someone off the list of potential leadership. I believe that when you do that,
you remove the Holy Spirit's ability to add a supernatural element to the
developmental process. I urge you to look for reasons to add people to a list
of potential leaders as your first response towards them, not eliminate them
from consideration. If your process of leadership development is solid, those
whom God has not intended to lead will be eliminated in a natural and
redemptive way. This usually occurs by their own accord, and the investment
that was made is not a waste of time.
So
why is it that we hold back in our selection of apprentices? I mentioned
earlier that being disappointed is one reason. Whether we chose poorly or the
apprentice made some questionable choices isn't the issue. The bottom line is
that it seems like the investment was wasted. It's understandable why we can
become gun shy, but that doesn't let us off the hook. We must continue to find
leaders and develop them.
The
following are some of the common mistakes in selecting apprentice leaders that
squelch the discernment of potential. Avoiding them will help you increase your
harvest of leaders.
I already commented on this one when I said
that leaders often look for reasons to eliminate potential leaders rather than
accept them. In other words, if we look first for flaws, no one will make the
cut. If, however, we first look for strengths, many more people will be
included.
There is a risk when you include more people
on the front end, but the risk is worth it. For those who may want to lead but
are not gifted to lead, this gives you an opportunity to help them find the
right spot of service for them. Ultimately, they will be happier and more
fulfilled.
This occurs when you first look for what they
have done or ask "What can they do?" It's something like looking for
a resume of experience before you give them a chance and invest in them. I
don't imagine that many of us would ever have risen in leadership
responsibility if someone didn't give us a chance when we had little to no
experience. Start by asking the question: "What can they become?"
It's clear to me 21 years later that John
Maxwell didn't see much production or experience in me when I came out of
Asbury Seminary. He couldn't have--I hadn't done anything except read books and
take tests. Yet he saw something. I believe he discerned my potential.
This is a mistake I must confess I have made
far too many times. For example, I will size up a good-looking couple and give
them far more credit than they deserve. Conversely, I might be prone to quickly
pass over a couple that presents themselves more modestly with less polish or
relational skill. This is almost always a mistake. Discerners of potential are
able to look at the interior, not the exterior. Assumptions of any kind are
unwise.
As a church leader, there are times you find
yourself under pressure. You need a body. If the body is warm and shows up, it
qualifies. Don't give in to the pressure. An empty spot is far better than the
wrong person in a place of leadership. Take your time. Pray and get to know
them first. If you, like many, feel like you are not good at discerning, then
give yourself even more time. Time always reveals character.
Don't let anyone pressure or bully you into a
people decision you are not comfortable with. On occasion, I have given into
relational pressure. Each time I let a friend take advantage of our
relationship to get someone else included on a particular team or leadership
training process was a mistake I regretted. Focus on hearing God's voice. Be
tough and courageous. Make your decisions based upon the results of your prayer
time, not other people's desires.
Discerning
potential in others is not a purely mystical exercise. God does speak and
reveal, but there are things you can look for as you listen to God's voice.
When
discerning potential, look for:
Discerners
know how to find a person's heart and what lies within it. Invest time and
energy into uncovering latent leadership abilities. Discipline yourself to look
for and develop these qualities of a leader after you have discerned the heart.
These qualities are things such as:
You
won't choose perfectly every time. Jesus chose perfectly, and even He had at
least one major flameout. Not every apprentice will become a leader, but it's
important to look with God's eyes and heart to find those leaders, and then
pour into them. You will lose some along the way, that's part of the process.
It's better to risk the potential of inclusion than exclusion.
Good
discerners:
I
hope this helps you develop leaders!